so i have given up on titles. what's the point, you're going to read my blog anyways so whatever. anyways.......this morning my cousin calls me with a dilemma. a relationship ended and who's to blame? the neglected boyfriend or the attention-craving friends? apparently, in this case you can't have your cake and eat it too. well the relationship has already ended but my cousin and i have come to a common consensus that when it comes between the guy and the friends, you go for the guy. that's right, you go for the guy. now i might sound like a sucky friend right now but god dammit if they were true friends they'd understand, right? i only find this between really close friends and family. if me and my sister were just casually hanging out and boy calls, i go for boy, she's cool, all is good. and that's why i love debra :P friends and family can't give you intimacy and closeness that a significant other can and they're supposed to be there for you unconditionally. well, after a long crazy drawn out story my cousin is still left in shambles and i'm helping him cope. screw the friends because they're obviously jealous. win the guy back and learn your lesson that these friends of yours are bitter because they don't have what you have. what can i say but 'misery loves company.'